Mum Guilt and Other Uninvited Guests

No one truly prepares you for mum guilt. It appears out of nowhere and settles in like an unwanted guest. You feel it when you go to work, and you feel it when you stay home. You feel it when you feed your child something quick and easy, even though they are full and happy. … Read more

When “Me Time” Feels Like a Myth

People always say mums should make time for themselves. It sounds lovely in theory. I picture a quiet morning, a hot cup of tea, maybe even a little skincare routine. Then reality begins. The baby wakes up early, the six-year-old can’t find her socks, and someone has managed to spill something sticky on the sofa. … Read more

The Myth of Having It All Together

Some mornings I watch other mums glide into school drop-off looking so calm and composed. Their hair is neat, their children are smiling, and they even manage to sip a hot coffee on the way in. I can’t help but wonder how they do it. In my house, mornings are a very different story. I’m … Read more